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Thursday, September 22, 2005

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Wednesday, September 21, 2005

A Swiss surprise in Sungei Wang

Have you ever experienced this - sometimes, when we are having difficulty or feeling a bit down facing up to all the challenges in life, a good thing happens (no matter big or small) and the whole world brightens up for us.

Today, something exactly like this happened to me.

No, I am not talking about receiving a bouquet of my favourite flowers from my dearest darling (though I would like that very much, it's been a while), nor am I talking about striking the lottery overnight.

It's much, much more simpler.

As you have read from my previous post, I'm having one of the busiest times at work due to several of my company's publications coming out at the same time, having to do client servicing for invoices, meeting them to pass the magazines, and of course, THE event of the year that I've been working my butt off for - the postgradasialive! 2005 postgraduate study fair happening next Thursday, September 29th (more about that later).

Today, my colleague and I planned a distribution route all around KL city to pass out the event postcards, posters and booklets to various planned drop-off points. We knew that it was going to be a long and tiring day out in the hot sun, and my car was so overloaded with books and stuff that it looked like a delivery van/lorry!

Also, as is so typical of me, I've left to the very last minute the submission of the form and payment for a women's workshop this Saturday that I'm signing my Mum up for. (Forgive me, Mum, was just too busy with work to even stop and breathe). To redeem myself, I decided to send the form & payment via Poslaju so it would arrive within the next 2 days to ensure that my Mum would still get a seat in that workshop.

Since our route will be passing by Sungei Wang Plaza, my colleague suggested that we post the envelope at the post office there.

And so, at about 1.00pm we parked my car at Berjaya Times Square, did all the drop-offs then proceeded to Sungei Wang Plaza to post my envelope and have lunch at the same time. My colleague led me to POS Malaysia located on the 3rd floor (or was it the 4th? Don't ask me, I can really get lost in Sungei Wang). So anyway, while we were walking to the post office, we passed by a food court with no signboard and no name. It looked like it had just opened for business. Inside we saw open-concept kitchens, and some cosy corners with cushions, as well as chairs with cow-inspired designs. Interesting! It peaked my interest and I thought the layout resembled Marché, the Swiss-based restaurant that just opened an outlet in The Curve, Mutiara Damansara in Petaling Jaya not too long ago.


View from inside, Marché Movenpick Restaurant, The Curve

But duty calls first, so we went over to the Post Office to post my precious envelope before discussing how to fill our growling stomachs. I persuaded my colleague to try that 'open-concept food court that we passed just now' to check out the food as I was really curious what it was. When we reached, I walked up to the waiter there, and asked, 'Is this Marché?' and he replied 'Yes, we are just opened'.

Since my colleague had not tried Marché before and wanted to, we took our tickets and entered the restaurant. What I noticed was that this Marché is quite different from the first outlet at The Curve. It is really spacious (I mean really! You can do a breakdance on some of the spaces in between tables), and there was more Asian food stalls than usual - there was bak kut teh (*yummy pork!*), Hong Kong cuisine (tong sui), Japanese Ramen and Teppanyaki besides the usual rosti, sausages, Euro grill and pastry/cake stalls. We were thinking what to eat, knowing the tasks that still laid ahead of us required strength and sustenance to last us till 5pm at the very least. So we skipped all the stalls and went for the pasta stall (the queue at Euro grill was too long anyway). I had also earlier warned my colleague that the food at Marché could be quite expensive if you choose meat dishes or eat a large variety of dishes.

So we ordered 2 tomato chicken spaghetti dishes for us both and were about to ask the price of each plate (there was no price tag at all, really odd) but someone beat us to it. To which the waiter replied, 'Oh, you don't have to pay anything. Today is our Trial Run and all food is served free.'

My eyes widened and I looked at my colleague who turned to me with exactly the same expression. I clarified with them again, and they said yes, today is their Trial Run (it was the their first day open) and there's no charge for any food served. No wonder there's no price tag displayed anywhere!

Well, realising the *gold mine* that we had accidentally stumbled upon on a normal hot afternoon in KL running our errands, we just went a little crazy after that, ordering everything that was worth ordering that we felt we could finish in our limited 'lunch hour'.

We had tomato chicken spaghetti, grilled salmon with salad, tong sui, fruit juice and a slice of cake EACH. It was a most satisfying and delightful lunch. I tell you, a few other customers were also like us, walking around carrying the plates of food to their tables with a grin on their faces. The best thing with this outlet is, if I'm not mistaken, they serve pork. My colleague claimed that she saw them serving pork knuckle and I saw with my own eyes the chunks of meat in the bak kut teh that cannot be mistaken for chicken (or beef (yuck can you imagine bak kut teh with beef?)). Oh, I do, do hope they serve pork. The pork knuckle at Marché is HUGE and heavenly and to taste it you'd need to travel all the way down to Singapore which has 2 Marché outlets.

Oh yeah, aside from having more Asian stalls, there were also newer concepts for their dining areas - I noticed a Middle Eastern room (pottery, hanging tapestries), a Japanese room and a Malay room (attap roof). Nice!

Well, looks like Sungei Wang's latest restaurant, Marché, will draw larger drones of people into the mall, if Marché's popularity worldwide is anything to go by.

My colleague and I just couldn't believe our luck to have passed by and bumped into Marché the first day they opened and conducting their Trial Run. We savoured the yummy food and enjoyed the ambience (they were playing Mandarin songs over the PA system too!). But all too soon, it was time to get back on the road to complete our deliveries and try to head back to the office by 4pm.

The traffic was also surprising - where it would normally take us 45 minutes to an hour to reach the office, it only took us 20 minutes today! Surprise, surprise...

All in all, in the gloom of 'darkness', sometimes the sky clears just enough to allow a ray of light shine in. Today was just such a day. (Though I am not in gloom, but have just been extremely & impossibly busy and stressed out with the event, staying up late and waking up early in mornings just to get all the work done).

I'm sorry guys, if you're thinking of visiting Marché Sungei Wang to take advantage of all the *free food*, the Trial Run is only for one day. Believe me, we asked and probed them about how long it would last (perhaps we could return the next day, hehe), but too bad - the fact still stands. I guess they know how kiasu Malaysians are and wouldn't want the place to be swarmed. As it is, there wasn't any sign outside the restaurant that said it was a Trial Run nor did any waiters at the door inform us about it. They are real smart, eh?

Another day down in history for me, and a new day beckons.

I wonder what little surprises Wednesday 21 Sept would hold for me?

Saturday, September 17, 2005

Nobody relaxes on Sunday anymore

(Also known as "My Crazy Week, and Weekend")

Monday, 12 Sept
Left office 2 hours later than planned for visits to clients. Only managed to visit 2 out of 5! Came back just on time for meeting at office, 4pm. Worked till 10.30pm on urgent workstuff. Computer hanged thrice! Got home past 11. Had dinner and slept relatively early.

Tuesday, 13 Sept
Meeting client at 10.30am *rush*rush*rush*. Meeting didn't go so well but what was worst was the comments my colleague gave me... post-mortem. But I told myself, 'Ok... Just b-r-e-a-t-h-e, stay positive and concentrate on the message.' Drove all over KL in the hot sun, meeting clients to pass our booklets/posters/postcards. Got back to office at 3.30pm, in time for meeting at 4pm. Left late, trying to finish URGENT stuff. Met JL at A&W from 11pm-1am. Slept at 2am.

Wednesday, 14 Sept
Stayed in the office the whole day. Tried to catch up with work but interruptions aplenty. For a good cause anyway, for the event on 29th Sept. Only had some peace at the end of the day. Worked late again and turned up for appointment with SS 1 hour late. Yakkity-yak. Came home around 12am and did some office work. Slept at 3.30am.

Thursday, 15 Sept
Woke up early & got to office by 8.30 ^_^ Own plans for work screwed up due to 1st Commandment: 'what i say, you must do Now'. So went out to deliver things all over KL again. All hot and bothered towards the end, accidentally left sunglasses at client's place. Got back just in time for PG meeting, started 1 hour late, but for the first time it went quite well. Worked on some more 'urgent' stuff. Left office for meeting at vihara and arrived 1 hour late. By that time was dozing off while driving and walking like a zombie. Turned into a zombie at 12 am when my brother came back and woke me up from the couch and blurrily I asked him a question, "What day is it?". I must be having a dream that it was already Saturday.

Friday, 16 Sept
Wanted to go to client's place first thing in the morning but the things I'm supposed to pass to her not prepared yet. Went into office first. Booklets F-I-N-A-L-L-Y arrived! Thus, had to delay timing of leaving the office due to packing of booklets, etc. But really glad to have T back to work, he jumped straight into action. Finally left at 12pm. Lunch near old Thrifty. Delivering invoices, booklets, kits all over PJ for myself and on behalf of SY & SF. Dashed off to Cyberjaya for another meeting with client. Back to office by 6pm. Phew! 'Mock meeting' but actually celebration of D's birthday. Zipped off 2-3 emails then left. Arrived a bit late for friend's wedding dinner and sat 4 tables away from old Buddies. Walked back & forth to catch the action happening there. Not fun, but food was quite good. Tai Thong Imperial Palace at Jaya Square. You should try it. Posh place, but for weddings, the waiters inexperienced & the speakers system need to be improved.

Saturday, 17 Sept (i.e. tomorrow)
What can I say? 11am Fashion workshop by Studio & The Island Shop at MPH 1-U. Gotta give it a miss due to commitment to deco team for vihara Mooncake Family Nite. Plan to go shop-shop-shopping for supplies & materials, then do cut-cutting, paste-pasting, hang-hanging for the stage etc. Meditation dialogue at 3. Dinner for mooncake nite starts at 6.30pm. JH's coming - he's back from Pg a while. Choir, orphans, gifts, clowns, balloons. Sounds more like a birthday party but it's actually the celebration of a traditional Chinese festival with some underprivileged children. Should end by 10-10.30pm. Then we move on to our next programme - birthday surprise for a YS junior. Happy birthday V!

Sunday, 18 Sept (also the Mid-Autumn Festival Day in the Chinese calendar)
The day of the Sabbath. Supposed to be a day for rest, reflection & togetherness according to the Christians. Plan to go to gym early in the morning, 'cause have not gone the whole week. Then off to my friend MW's place for some discussion and work. Before the sun sets, I plan to go back to the place where I spend 60% of my life in - my workplace - to compile some stats for an important presentation next week and 'catch up' with work. Back to SJ for dinner. Then, maybe, just maybe... I'll finally get to r.e.s.t.

And then the cycle repeats once again, the following week.

THIS is my life.

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It's a change emblematic of a societal shift, where the day traditionally known for rest, reflection and togetherness is now filled with work, chores and errands.


Nobody relaxes on Sunday anymore
~ newspaper article in Arizona Replubic, 17 Jul 2005

Sunday, September 04, 2005

Red card, red summons

It's funny.

I did not get any hint of friends' weddings this year but in a span of 1 week, I have heard of 2 - Tsu Jiau (16 September), Keat (15 October, Penang), Chee Yee (16 October, Raub!) - and have to prepare myself for a few more next year - Sue San (after CNY 2006), Shih (mid-2006).

So many "summonses". I'll be SO broke in the next 2 months!

Weddings are often occassions to celebrate the union of 2 people who decide to spend the rest of their lives together as lovers and companions through the ups and downs of life.

In my ~Dreamworld~, I've always imagined weddings to be simple and fuss-free. Friends and relatives come together to rejoice and congratulate the happy couple; it is also an opportunity to catch up with old friends or relatives who come from near and far.

But, more often than not, a wedding is one of the most complex events that one could organise...

First & foremost, weddings are expensive in this 21st century - the wedding photography, the gown (rented or made), the invitation cards, the car & its decorations, the new bridal chamber, the tables for the wedding dinner, the wedding favours... the list goes on. Large weddings (20 tables & above) often cost a minimum of RM20,000 and may even come up to RM100,000 (if you opt for a 5-star hotel, a tailor-made wedding dress with Swavroski crystals and other luxuries).

Secondly, there are more rituals and traditions to follow than you can count on 10 fingers (especially Chinese superstitions) - and woe betide any couple who doesn't observe these rituals - may the gods have mercy on you when the relatives' tongues start wagging.

Both the bride & groom's family will want a say in how it is organised and who to invite.

Seating positions and tables have to be allocated properly to avoid eruptions of family feuds that already exist or may happen because it wasn't.

And for most of us Malaysian Chinese, we are caught in between a traditional wedding with all the rites & rituals as part of the package and the dream of having a Westernised wedding (small receptions, church weddings, garden parties).

Some of us have embraced religions such as Christianity or Theravadan Buddhism and may not think the traditional Chinese rituals and superstitions are worth observing - the roasted pig to be presented to the bride, the bright red decorations for the bridal chamber that are full meanings and hidden messages and not forgetting the do's and don'ts to obey to invite good luck (more wealth & more children *very important*) and avoid bad luck. I'm sure there are times that this may cause a rift between the couple and family members who think the rites should be observed.

+_+

Whatever it is, when all's said and done, though we often say we have been issued a "summon" when we receive a wedding invitation card in a pink envelope, a wedding is still a call for celebration. Just think about it - the RM50-100 that we put in the little ang pau (red packet) IS value for money when you have the wonderful opportunity to meet and chat with long-lost friends/relatives, to enjoy the filling 8 to 10 course dinner and to gulp down all the booze you can drink in one night.

Now isn't that a grand celebration for everyone?